Wednesday, August 19, 2009

Sometimes, a Girl Just Needs her Dad!


Elizabeth and Braces (with softball injury on chin!). She chose pink and turquoise rubber bands
Sometimes a Girl just needs her Dad!


This morning started early for both Mike and I. We were blessed to have Doug Howard pop in last night and stay with us for a very short, but very awesome visit. He arrived around dinner time, we ate, talked, and went swimming. We tried to fill him in on everything in a few short hours before we headed to bed.
We woke up and were at the hospital by 6:30 am with donuts in tow for our beloved nurses in the day surgery. Our GI doctor came in on vacation to stretch Mike and Mike really needed it. Mike was almost completely closed up to the size of a pin hole. Mike was no longer able to drink anything by mouth. He was able to stretch Mike to 8 cm this time. (In the past, it was 11 - 13 cm). Praise Jesus for the stretch as Mike was able to drink water and juice for the first time in 4 days. The doctor is convinced there is a tumor in the upper part of his stomach and around the outside of esophagus that we can not see that is squeezing things shut. He saw no physical evidence (scar tissue again this time), but it is the only thing that makes sense in his mind. We have a PET Scan on Friday and we should know the results on Monday. That will give us the true answer. I refuse to go there. I know Mike is losing weight rapidly right now. He is down to 156. But I really believe it is related to dehydration from the closure of esophagus and the diarrhea issues with the feeding tube. Now that I have taken a nap, I will not fear.
We had another great nurse today whose son is in the AF and works with Ejection Seats. The nurse and Mike talked a long time sharing stories. She was so caring and everyone wants to hear how MD Anderson goes. We are supposed to stop back in when we get back.
Then we came home to discover Doug had spoiled Elizabeth rotten. He changes some light bulbs for me and took Elizabeth shopping for softball shoes, an Edible Arrangement, PetSmart, Target, and Chick-fil-a. All that in a matter of 2 hours. I am still not quite clear how Doug knew that Elizabeth has ALWAYS wanted an edible arrangement, but to be honest, it was yummy. Especially the chocolate dipped bananas. Thank you Doug for everything. You trip was well timed and loved.

After Doug left, both Mike and I ended up taking Elizabeth to get her braces. Elizabeth was excited about getting them until the actual moment that it came to leave. Mike asked her if she wanted him to go with, and she said please. That moment makes me cry. That is what we are fighting for moments when only your Dad will take you by the hand and make everything ok. Sometimes a girl just needs her Daddy, right? Course I went too, so it was a big family outing to the orthodontist!
Prayer Needs:
Mike to gain weight
Negative PET Scan
God's Will and Strength and Reassurance
Elizabeth and her braces - care, pain, and quick straightening
Deanna - all the details to leave to MD Anderson
Praise:
Nurses
Friends
A drink of water - Mike praised Jesus all afternoon everytime he took a drink
That God is bigger than Doctors!

3 comments:

Tsofah said...

What a great blog...sharing such important moments in your life! I'll keep you guys in my prayers, and for a good result from the PET scan.

Carrie said...

Wow! You have had a busy summer.
Braces, camps, visits from friends and family, a new dog, birthdays, good food, house hunting, preparing for middle school, and even an edible arrangment. God is good! We continue to pray for complete healing for Mike and Deanna's Mom. May God guide every decision to renew these two bodies.
MD Anderson is a great place; we know so many people who have gone there. We are soaked with rain here in FL but are praying that God fill TX with plenty of sunshine; especially for the Phillips Family.

Anonymous said...

Heidi has missed her first two days of school (5th grade) due to fever & cough but last night she said "well, this helps me feel how Mike must feel all the time". So Mike, she's "feeling" as much as she can "with you". We continue to pray for all of you and loved seeing the pictures!!! Love, the Armes